Dating strategy
Aimlessly swiping and getting nowhere? Hate to say it, but that’s a huge part of the problem. Here are 10 tips for swiping with more direction than just left and right.
Clarify your goals
Know what you want from dating, even if it's just goals for the next few weeks. Set clear intentions so every swipe and match has a purpose. You’re in charge, not anyone or anything else. Specificity = satisfaction, baby!
Spot patterns
Reflect on your past relationships. See recurring themes? The common factor in all your experiences is you. Time to face your habits, cringe a bit, and break the cycle for better dating.
Invest in yourself
Luck meets action! Attend events, try an app subscription, and get professional photos. The more you experiment, the more confident you'll become. That’s hero energy, and it’s hot.
Stay positive
Approach dating apps with an open mind. Easier said than done, I know, especially if your last experience was a sh*tshow. But each new swipe is a fresh opportunity. Don't let past mistakes or loud opinions ruin future potential.
Enhance your profile
Your profile is the biggest reason you get the matches you do. Want better matches? Take a hard look at what you’re putting out there. Small tweaks = big results. Every one-percenter counts.
Monitor screen time
Be intentional with your app usage. The goal is to get in and get out—to IRL! The apps are a means to connect, not to get stuck. Track your screen time and set limits. Quality over quantity, always.
Focus on conversions
Turn screen time into face-to-face dates. Know your conversion rate and tweak your strategy for better results. The same advice goes for tracking effort you put in anywhere, and what real results come out. Swipe less, date more.
Build your network
Surround yourself with other singles who really get it. Don’t have any? It sounds flippant, but seriously, find some. Single friends = support, motivation, and potentially really fun group dates.
Diversify your portfolio
Don't rely solely on dating apps. In fact you should never rely on one thing in any part of life. Explore other ways to meet new people. Options, options, options (!) boost your short-term confidence and long-term success!
Work on yourself
Being single is the best time to do the unsexy but crucial task of “working on” yourself. Owning your unique brand of crazy and knowing how to get a handle on it, solo, is key to having any chance of a thriving relationship down the line. You attract what you are, so be the best you.
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