Elevate your chats

Initiate Conversations

When a match comes through, don’t wait. Initiate the chat with a custom opener.

Build Connections

Strive to create genuine connections with each match. Focus on quality over quantity.

Stay Consistent

Be consistent in replying to messages. Consistency shows interest and helps build trust.

Evaluate Drop-offs

If certain matches stopped responding, figure out what went wrong and adjust for next time.

Avoid Heavy Topic

Avoid sensitive topics early on. Save the heavy stuff for later.

Ask Open-Ended Questions

Yes/No questions kill a conversation. Ask open-ended questions to keep the chat flowing.

Balance the Conversation

Make sure the conversation isn’t one-sided. Mutual curiosity is key.

Know Your Limits

Understand your capacity for overwhelm and limit the chats you’ve got going. Don’t overcommit.

Move Offline

Feel comfortable shifting the chat from the app to non-app (call or date). You’re not in it for a pen pal.

Avoid Social Media Traps

Moving from app to another social media app can be a stall tactic. Go for the real deal—a call or a date.